你这么优秀，咋还单着呢

Chinese Singles' Day 中国的光棍儿节 I think some people are happy as singles who fully accept their lifestyle. They do not feel they need to be in a relationship. 有些人很享受单身，他们对自己的生活方式很满足，觉得没有必要谈恋爱。 I also think some singles just don't want to destroy the harmony of their life, or give up their habits and everyday pleasures. 有些单身不想破坏生活的和谐，或不想放弃他们的习惯和每天的乐趣。 Some singles have had bad experiences with romantic relationships in the past and they just don't want to be hurt again. 有些单身曾在感情中受过伤，不想再被伤害。 all-or-nothing singles 宁缺毋滥型 They are sure that their "soul mate" is out there somewhere. And they expect that when they finally find their true Princess or Prince Charming. 他们确信他们的“灵魂伴侣”将在某处。他们期待最终找到自己真正的公主或真命天子。 freedom 自由 I live life on my own terms without being answerable to anyone. 我生活在自己的世界里，不需对任何人负责。 So no debates there. 所以没有争论。 Making difficult decisions on your own can be challenging as a single person. In sometimes attending important personal events alone such as family or friend's wedding, graduation, and the like. 独自做艰难的决定可能是一个挑战。有时在出席重要场合，像家人或朋友的婚礼、毕业典礼之类。 There is times when I feel sad, I'd like someone to be there to comfort me. 有时我感到悲伤，我希望有人在那里安慰我。 You're so great. Why are you still single? 你这么优秀，咋还单着呢？ You are such a catch. 你如此优秀。 You're just too picky. 你太挑剔了。 There are plenty of fish in the sea. 天涯何处无芳草。 It happens when you least expect it. 爱情将会发生在你最不经意的时候。 He doesn't deserve you. 他配不上你。 Reality Shows 真人秀 (The Bachelor and The Bachelorette) The Bachelor is an American reality TV show that first aired in Spring of 2002. One eligible bachelor is selected, and 25 women are chosen to be on this reality show. So each Bachelor season last for 3 months. The goal of the bachelor is to select a woman to propose to by the end of the reality show. It's a dating game show that has had many Americans glued to their televisions including me on Monday nights. 《单身汉》是在2002年初播出的美国真人秀节目。一个合格的单身汉和25个女人被选中参加这个真人秀，所以每一季要持续3个月，目标是在真人秀结束前选择一个女人求婚。这是一个约会游戏节目，很多美国人包括我每周一晚上都会在电视前等着。 At times it can be very dramatic, after all there are about 20 women living together. Usually, all of the women have some type of romantic feelings for the same guy. It's intriguing to see which women the Bachelor decides to keep and which woman he decides to send home each week. 有时，它非常的戏剧性，毕竟有20几个女人在一起。通常，所有的女人对同一个男人都有某种浪漫的感觉。每周看看单身汉决定留下哪个女人，送哪个女人回家，是很有趣的。 I would encourage singles to be happy in the season that they are in now. I believe that if one is meant to have a significant other he or she will meet the right person at the right time. 我鼓励单身者享受现在的状态，我相信，一个人注定将在适当的时候遇到合适的另一半。